Living in community is a good way to learn about oneself. The Formation House curriculum, the Strengths and Values Small Group we participated in, and the general rock tumbler/fish bowl nature of intentional community have all afforded me many opportunities for self-reflection.
This year I have identified something that I am excited to focus on in the future. This thing will inform the rhythms I will seek to create for myself.
Sabbath is just a pause. It is a time to reflect, gather, celebrate, and prepare for the meaningful work ahead. It does not have to be a whole day, and it does not even have to be called “sabbath.”
While the concept of sabbath is counterculture, I know from practicing Sabbath with Amber (we started out celebrating it quarterly and now we celebrate it once a month) that Sabbath observation is a life-giving practice for me and is relatively easy to implement.
* * * * *
Moreover, I think Sabbath would make a good charism for a community.
Whether you call it a charism, focus, mission, core value, purpose, emphasis, or just “thing we do,” every community needs one sooner or later. Like a tent pole, a charism helps to give definition and form to community without being too ridged. It informs the rhythms a community will seek to establish and lays the groundwork for long-term cohesion.
Often, a community’s charisms emerge from the talents, values, and desires of its members. In fact, individuals often have charisms just as communities do.
Here at Formation House, we have been holding meetings to discuss what the members want to focus on next year. Someone voiced the desire to simply have more opportunities to spend time together.
Ironically, while community life is about more than doing the grocery shopping and figuring out an equitable way to do housework, it has been precisely those things that have taken up the bulk of our community time and energy—at the expense of hanging out and/or doing any number of other things together.
In this context, it is clear that a community must be thoughtful about what it wants its charism to be.
* * * * *
Having Sabbath as a charism makes a lot of sense for a community. Celebration is a perfect focal point for people to gather around. It is also a minimalistic charism in that it leaves lots of room for other charisms to grow.
Sabbath could be any day of the week (it does not have to be Sunday) and it could be as frequently or as occasionally as desired. It could be a neighborhood badminton tournament in the backyard. It could be dinner and a movie. It could be a planned day with no chores/obligations. It could be baking a cake just to celebrate life.
Again, to me Sabbath is a time to reflect, gather, celebrate, and prepare for the meaningful work ahead. Reflecting, gathering, celebrating and preparing does not happen on its own. That is why I am excited to practice Sabbath in my personal life and to promote it to anyone who will listen.